TENDER YEARS DOCTRINE Just because mothers carried the child during the pregnancy,  gave birth (either naturally or surgically), may possess breast  milk and the homing or nesting instincts make a women by  design the best interest for a the primary parent of the tender  years child (typically meaning the age of birth till school age)  child. However, far too many cases have proven that not all mothers  are or exercise the best interest of child(ren).  Drugs, smoking,  alcohol, domestic violence, mental or psychological defect and  other factors are taken into consideration to make a ruling that  creates a pattern which proves a mother is not the best interest  of a child(ren).    But there are many other factors which cannot just be presented  ahead of time to reflect or change a courts decision to prevent a  mother from moving with a child.  These invisible factors are  more likely to show up after a mother moves although some may show up early enough to cause enough concern to prevent  a mothers move with a child or require that a temporary modification of custody be made to ensure the mothers move is not  something that can/will effect the child further.  When my ex-wife move across country she should have informed the court.    But what if she is a run-a-way who only commits to a relationship for a short period of time and the jumps and runs?   Someone who just never stops running-a-way?  Northern California to Southern  California, California to Ohio, Ohio to  Georgia, Georgia to California?  The father is held hostage to a women by the historical precedent is that if a father wants to  see his children he can simply just pick up and move to where his ex-wife moves.  According to this old legal stereotype the  father could be required to get up to 50 court orders (one per state).  This is just one more way the legal system fails the  child(ren).  While they are trusting and believing that their father is fighting for them they don’t know that between chasing her  from state to state and the system he is being bankrupted, years pass by and they finally loose hope or are programmed by  the mothers that the fathers aren’t doing anything and/or don’t care.  Who’s Hurting Kids? IT’S NOT JUST MEN! HE SAID / SHE SAID 
Every 38 seconds a man is being abused by a woman. Why are these facts being hidden? WHO ABUSES CHILDREN? Mothers & Fathers, Sisters & Brothers, Aunts & Uncles, Nieces and Nephews, Grandmothers and Grandfathers, baby sitters  & nannies, friends, strangers, teachers, law enforcement, attorneys, judges and even our government.  What even the  government?  That is rights.  CPS, DFCS, or what ever other names they call themselves are also in hot water time after  time for abusing children.  How could that be?  Because humans are running it too.  TEACHERS Two teachers sleeping with same 13 year old More than 50 female teachers in past 10 years THE MEDIA Even the media jumps at the chance CPS / DFCS CPS Molests Children Too JUDGES Judges Take Cash for Kids
“MY PRECIOUS!”  Although this video is a light hearted, tongue in cheek comedy, which approaches the issue of Parental  abuse of children (like Parental Alienation and Parental Kidnapping) the fact of the matter is that mothers  can rely on the fact that either the child is too young to understand what she is doing to them or that the  court will not permit the child to say what she is doing to them.  Mothers take on the (horror character)  Gollum (from Lord of the Rings) like approach to their children saying things like, “MY child” forcing the  child to only love “ME.”  PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME  “There is no such thing” is what women will stomp their foot and scream in defiance. 
Woman are speaking out about the male bashing media
SUNDAY BLOODY SUNDAY How long must we sing this song?  Please people...get back in Church.
1+1=1 ACCORDING TO OBAMA “Obama tells us that ‘One in four women and one in thirteen men  will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.’ In reality, over  200 studies have found that women initiate at least as much  violence against their male partners as vice versa. Obama’s 3.25  ratio is actually 1-1. And men comprise about a third of domestic  violence injuries and deaths.”  See HERE fore the full story. SHOES PAGE WHORES OF THE COURT MARGARET A. HAGEN received her PhD from the Institute of Child Development at  the University of Minnesota. She is a professor in the Department of Psychology at  Boston University. Her research interests focus on the scientific foundation of forensic  psychology.  Things that I have witnessed in some courts has been nothing shy of an episode of The Three Stooges it is just the not funny to the fathers or the children when the courts do it.  WHO ABUSES CHILDREN? Mothers, Fathers, Sisters, Brothers, Aunts, Uncles, Nieces, Nephews, Grandmothers, Grandfathers,  Step/Foster Families, Adopted Families, Baby Sitters, Nannies, Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Family Friends  Strangers, Doctors, Nurses, Dentists, Counselors, Co-Workers, Teachers, Bosses, Law Enforcement  Attorneys, Judges, CPS/DFCS, Senators, Congress Persons, Heads of State, Government, Kings,  Queens, Gay, Lesbians, Christians, Catholics, Mormans, and on..., and on..., and on...  SO STOP BLAMING FATHERS IT IS NOT JUST MEN
SEX EDUCATION The government has designed the curriculum in sex education that  they want children to be taught.  However it includes alternative  lifestyles like guy and lesbian as ok and acceptable and therefore are  promoted while much of the basic information and education is not  even addressed.  Here is a book entitled “Let’s Talk About Sex” which claims to have  sold more than 1 million copies.  Television and media ads across  the nation have said teach your children about sex.  Words like  abstinence, monogamy, single partner are given merely a whisper  while jumping in the  sack with anyone you want to.  But not only do they not mean it they will trough you in jail if they find  out that you “talked” to your child about sex.  They will turn your  conversation into a “verbal molestation” which can enable them, if  convicted, to place you on the national sex offenders registry.  Being accused of annoying or molesting a child is also no frivolous  matter. As a misdemeanor offense in California, P.C. 647.6 is  punishable by imprisonment in county jail for a period of up to one  year and/or a maximum fine of $5,000. With a conviction also comes  the likely possibility of having to annually register as a sex offender  pursuant to P.C. 290.  Convicted or not it will effect your for life  permanently. It is reported that 62 percent of 12th graders had had sexual intercourse, compared with 33 percent of 9th graders but what is  even more alarming to me is that schools have “safe places” where kids can sexually experiment.  Kids say the schools know  but do nothing about it.  Likewise teachers who were known to have been having sex with children, who later married one of  their students still work within the school system.  Although I suspect that this statistic like all others reported by the  government to be wrought with gross errors and omissions because it did not report sex below 15 (Kaiser, Guttmacher, or any  other “reported” accounts).  Catholicism has a coming out party for 16 year old daughter to let people know they have  “coming of age.”  While modern mothers hold parties at home to promote drink and even sex parties.  While girls are taught  by their mothers to dress and act anyway they want especially if it is slutty, sexual or out of control. This “teen pregnancy graph is a fraud because it does not report all the facts.  Teen means 13 and 14 too.  Where are those  statistics.  The reason that they are not reported is because those numbers are breaking records at an epidemic proportion.   People shouldn’t know the truth.  The truth is not important.  The truth can’t harm nor help anyone.  Right, just like  government and intelligence never harmed anyone either.  So I ask you what are you hiding?  If a father dressed his teenage  daughter up in lingerie and took her trolling for men he’s either be gay and looking for men too (which is acceptable) or  incarcerated.  But the double standards of justice promote girls being out of control.  When there is no check or balance to  what is enforced then those people, just like CPS and the COPS, who are permitted to get away with anything will.   
Some Judges are taking cash, creating orders and refusing to enforce order that inflicts harm on non-custodial parents and children.  I have seen Judges that are stellar in their jobs but I have also seen Judges who were criminals. God is the one friend who will not turn away from you in your time of suffering and need.  Click on the Bible and one will be delivered to you. Click on the pen above to contact me Note that the information contained in these sites is not legal advice, I am not an attorney, the information may not be accurate or current and is subject to each individual interpretation. You agree to hold me harmless and have been informed of such.   Specific cases are where there may be just cause this information does not apply and is not held to judicial standards because it is the person opinion, experience and information was collected from personal, private and public sources which I have no control over. Site Founded June 25, 2007 - All Rights Reserved. WheresDADDY.ORG, WheresMOMMY.ORG & AChildsRights.ORG