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MOTHERS  Custodial mothers are given the ‘get our of jail FREE’ card for almost  everything.  Interfering with visitation, communications, legal rights and any other  punishment that they want to inflict upon the Father (a.k.a. non-custodial  spouse).  When I reported the physical and sexual abuse and neglect of my son I  was arrested even though I had proof.  However when my X doesn’t show up for  visitation, communications, etc. the judge just says, ‘if you don’t comply I can fine you.’  If that was a Father standing up there he would get the maximum the judge  could impose. Feminist organizations refute that Parental Alienation exists or that women are  leading child kidnapping 9:1 over men.  The Nation Organization of Women says  that parental alienation is a Phony Disorder.  But wait a new trend is also  emerging of women against women.  What women abusing other women?  Yes,  step-mothers are also making headlines as those women try to alienate children  of their new boyfriends/husbands child(ren) (a.k.a. - her step children) from their  biological mothers).  Dr Phil Show Custody Calculations  Having to deal with another woman being around your boyfriend/husband causes  tension in many relationships especially when one or both cannot get along.   Mothers permitting or men and/or step-fathers to punish children that are not  your own has been reported to have higher abuse than biological parent  punishment.  So why are women more likely to kidnap the children.  Here are some of the  reasons that fathers have had such a bias and discrimination place against  them? Money Revenge  Malice Hatred  Attorneys work harder for a women because the man is almost always  made to pay the mothers attorney fees and court costs as well. False allegations are an easy win when a women turns on the tears.   District attorneys rarely hesitate to take a case against an abusive Father  but once they find out the allegations were false they leave the Father  even more victimized and are not willing to go after the mother.  Courts  and law enforcement are funded by our government to pursue specific  crimes. Justice is 99% in the mothers favor (10:1 odds or better)  BABIES FOR BANK Babies for bank’ is used for women who have created their own job of being a  baby mill.  Welfare, child support, and food stamps are even more government  programs which promote single mothers and when you throw in state laws which  prevent Fathers from having any rights to their biological children born our of  wedlock pours salt on Children’s and Father’s wounds.  How many of these  mothers have been in court because they were drinking and partying all hours of  the day and night while the children were home alone?  Every 9 months or so I  can increase my income without ever having to get a job.  HOSTAGE CHILDREN Women are focused on one thing in a divorce and that is money.  I want the  house, I want the SUV, I want the kids (because I’ll get money).  They don’t care  about the kids but their lifestyle and being embarrassed in front of their girlfriends  if she shows up without getting at least half.  But within weeks they have new  boyfriends or a new husband who now is providing additional income to her bank  account. FALSE ALLEGATIONS  Feminist also don’t want you to know the number of false abuse claims filed  every year either.  Just turn on the tear and turn up the acting and they are  automatically a victim accusing a Father in our ‘guilty until proven guilty  society.  District Attorneys who file false allegations against a Father just give the  mother are given the ‘get our of jail FREE’ card and ignore the injustice that  they just served having no responsibility to ensure justice is served to the  children or the Father.  BRAIN WASHING  See what you’ve done.’  ‘Your Daddy doesn’t love you and is never coming back  for you.’  ‘I told you he didn’t want you.’  Are all statement that my X made while  why didn’t you show up’ and ‘what doctors appointment’ are statements that I’ve  made.  FATHER DOES NOT MEAN CHILD SUPPORT & ALIMONY FATHERS  Child support is causing hostage children because Father does not mean child  support or alimony.  This concept has changed women's view of marriage from a  lifelong commitment to a temporary inconvenience with benefits upon divorce.   Crimes against children must not be tolerated or supported.  But I must also say that step-fathers also interfere as well.  Having to deal with  another man being around your girlfriend/wife causes tension in many  relationships especially when one or both cannot get along.  Step parents using  corporal punishing on step-children has been reported to have higher abuse than  biological parent punishment.  So why are women more likely to kidnap the children.  Here are some of the  reasons that fathers have had such a bias and discrimination place against  them? Fathers work one or more jobs while women typically stay at home.  Fathers are used to correct/punish (the bad cop) while mothers keep their  nurturing side (good cop).  Many Father don’t want the responsibility of being the parent (seeing it as  a woman’s place).  Pregnancy, birth and breast feeding create a bond between women and  children.  Men keep their distance and don’t easily show their emotions like women.  Children and divorce equals money to a woman so they will fight for every  penny. Because of the bias and discrimination against Fathers men see courts  and attorneys as a threat and a financial blood letting.  The more the  Father fights the more it will cost. Attorneys don’t want cases against mothers because don’t work and  cannot pay the attorney fees and court costs like a man could. False allegations are an easy win when a women turns on the tears.   District attorneys rarely hesitate to take a case against an abusive Father  but once they find out the allegations were false they leave the Father  even more victimized and are not willing to go after the mother.  Courts  and law enforcement are funded by our government to pursue specific  crimes. The entire justice system is 99% AGAINST Fathers (a losing hand)  You want to talk statistics?  In my case along you have (1) Father, (2) mothers  and (4) children.  100% of the mothers violate our rights to visitation and  communications, leaving the children and Father victims to their ‘get out of jail  FREE’ pattern of contempt which is ignored, promoted and defended by the  courts and law enforcement.  But let me give even more statistical analysis.  Two  step-fathers interfered (because the mothers interfered), 1 out of 6 judges was  trustworthy, unbiased and did not discriminate, 2 out of 10 law enforcement  officers made no errors in their reports or testimony, 1 out of 5 attorneys fought  an honest and honorable fight.    How many children assume that their Fathers are who their mothers told them  they really were.  In roughly 10 years I have spoken to many children who  assumed that their Fathers were the ‘dead beat Dad’s’ that their mothers  programmed them to believe only to find out later that their mothers had lied  about much of the what they were told about their biological Fathers.  50/50 CUSTODY  50/50 custody means that the children matter.  It also means that while the  child(ren) are in your care and custody that you pay and while the child(ren) are  in my care and custody I pay.  We still share the medical, dental, and education  expenses.  This eliminates child support helping keep Fathers in the family and  out of jail, while increasing Father activity with their children.    4 CHILDREN, 2 MOTHERS & 1 FATHER