The first time that parental alienation was in the printed media was 1940.  It is 2011 people!  That is only 30 years away  from 100 years of a country still turning its back on non-custodial parents.  I purchased www.WheresDADDY.org,  www.WheresMOMMY.org and www.AChildsRights.org not because I want to discriminate again women but because I  want to have my unbiased equal rights to my children AND speak out about the injustice being dealt to non-custodial  parents.  LEGALIZED KIDNAPPING Far too many words are being created as a smoke screen for the custodial parents to get away with kidnapping children in  the United States.  HOSTILE AGGRESSIVE PARENTING MALICIOUS MOTHERS SYNDROME PARENTAL ALIENATION (Type I, II & III) PARENTAL ABDUCTION PARENTAL KIDNAPPING PARENTAL DENIGRATION CHILD SNATCHING ABSCONDING DEPRIVATION Every single one of these words still has one thing in common - child kidnapping!.  If you use the wrong word is court you  most likely will lose your case.  What manner of justice is this?  This is nothing less than adults acting like children.  My  son would not understand why someone who is not his Father or mother making a decision that he can only spend a  minimum of eight days per month with his Father which is more than his mother even wants him to have.  But let’s break down some of these words (all definitions were taken from Webster):  ALIENATE 1: to make unfriendly, hostile, or indifferent especially where attachment formerly existed 2: to convey or transfer (as property or a right) usually by a specific act rather than the due course of law 3: to cause to be withdrawn or diverted This is the definition for denigration which although denigration is a form of alienation it is a crime of mind control or brain washing.  This is where ‘nothing more than a civil matter’ is applied to children (minors) reducing the crime of abduction or kidnapping to merely a property dispute. ABSCOND 1: to depart secretly and hide oneself  Absconding is the act of running-a-way NOT taking a child which would be an act of abduction or kidnapping. ABDUCT 1: to seize and take away (as a person) by force To abduct is to take someone away by force. KIDNAP 1: to seize and detain or carry away by unlawful force or fraud and often with a demand for ransom This is what most do legally in our nation when they snatch the children, run and hide until a court order is created to prevent it from continuing.  With our without a court order the kidnapping parent has 100% of the rights while everyone else has none. SNATCH 1: to attempt to seize something suddenly 2: to take or grasp abruptly or hastily <snatch up a pen> <snatched the first opportunity>; also : to seize or take suddenly without permission, ceremony, or right An attempt to seize, grasp abruptly or hastily without permission.  Even the act of trying to seize is wrong just not when a court order is created or a custodial parent does it. DEPRIVE 1: obsolete : remove 2: to take something away from 3: to remove from office 4: to withhold something from <deprived a citizen of her rights> This is once again a gross miscarriage of justice to those whose children have been kidnapped by their spouse or X spouse.  This is just like saying children are nothing more than a civil matter or a piece of personal property.  “He’s just complaining,” one Attorney in Georgia said about the Mother keeping our 9 month old child for 174 days. DENIGRATE 1: to attack the reputation of : defame <denigrate one's opponents> 2: to deny the importance or validity of : belittle <denigrate their achievements> This is once against a GROSS MISCARRIAGE OF JUSTICE to those whose children have been kidnapped by their spouse or X spouse.  This is just one more word that does not give weight nor merit to the injustice that has been inflicted upon the victims. While women and the so called experts argue over whether Parental Alienation is real or not take a look at this two year  old cat who is nursing from a blanket because she was parental alienated.  Yes, even animals suffer from the horrible  effects of Parental Alienation!  PARENTAL ALIENATION (TYPE I, II & III)  Parental alienation is the most widely used term to describe the kidnapping of children by one of their parents/guardians.   In any case Parental Alienation is gaining serious steam in the battle to help stop these forms of child and spousal abuse.   Even the experts believe that parental alienation is so serious that there are three separate and specific forms that must  be considered.  Type One: Naïve Alienator Type Two: Active Alienators  Type Three: Obsessed Alienator Why can’t we call kidnapping...well kidnapping?  Kidnapping could have paragraphs like all civil codes which would  specify which type of kidnapping is being committed.  By removing the attorneys from family cases the judges would be  held accountable for their decisions eliminating the years, or even decades, of drawn out court battles, financial blood  letting and victims while promoting healthy families and children.   INDUSTRY EXPERTS  Dr Jane Major and Catherine MacWillie are just two of the persons who are taking a stand and speaking out.    Parental Alienation  A special thanks to Glen Sacks and the Fathers and Families Group for their active roll in helping change the laws of this  nation:  Fathers and Families Fathers & Families Helps Introduce Child Custody Bill in Georgia  Non-custodial parents and children are being victimized by Parental Abductions and Parental Kidnapping.  Where law  enforcement, attorneys and courts are not upholding the laws and/or the court orders the victims should be entitled to a  refund of all moneys paid plus severance against those states, courts and other agencies, as well as, fines imposed for  failure to comply. FATHERS ARE NOT WELCOME IN FAMILIES ANYMORE  Mothers can kill and keep her kids while Fathers cannot even get visitation enforced.  Being a Father today is like playing  Russian roulette where you are the only person permitted to play.  CLICK, you had a child.  CLICK, the mother is not  permitting you to see the child(ren).  Click you go to court and BANG you get to pay 100% of the travel, child support,  medical, dental, and anything else the Judge put on that order.  Except the orders hold less weight and merit than toilet  paper for the Fathers.  Mothers can play the “I’m not showing up game” while the Fathers fly or drive hundreds (or even  thousands) of miles.  When the Father needs the justice system to stand behind that order that he paid for he is told “the  order is not enforceable,” “we don’t know what to do” or “you have to go back to court.”  When he returns to court the  Judge does nothing to stop violations by the mother but, by God, if the Father fails any part they will throw him in jail,  charge him with contempt and take away his rights to parent.   CAUGHT BETWEEN HELL & HOPE HOME PAGE God is the one friend who will not turn away from you in your time of suffering and need.  Click on the Bible and one will be delivered to you. 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WheresDADDY.ORG, WheresMOMMY.ORG & AChildsRights.ORG IT’S NOT ABOUT WHICH PARENT IS RIGHT IT’S ABOUT WHAT’S RIGHT FOR THE CHILDREN MANY JUDGES DON’T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE GENDER BIAS Today Fathers and women who are non-custodial parents are discriminated against while the mothers and  custodial parents are unjustly enriched.  They can use the children for profit and financial gain through such  Babies 4 Bank and Kids 4 Cash schemes like child support, reduced rent, welfare and food stamps.  The  stereotypical complaint is that the Father is no where to be found or just a dead beat rather than telling the truth  that she has eliminated him from her life and doesn’t want him anywhere around her and will file false charges of  abuse if he does come around or can have him incarcerated if he doesn’t pay his child support.  This system of  “CHILDREN ARE NOTHING MORE THAN JUST A CIVIL MATTER” permits and promotes children to be held as  legal hostages for money.  Remove the gender from the equation and you have biological parents, foster parents and adoptive parents.  Not male/female, not husband/wife, not father/mother.  Remove the term “custodial” and  replace it with parent, foster parent or adoptive parent because “custodial” is used as a weapon that harms the  children and the non-custodial parent. FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTON SON THAT WHO SO EVERY BELIVETH IN HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT SHALL HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.  John 3:16 "Come, I will show you the punishment of the great prostitute, who sits on many waters.  With her the kings of the earth committed adultery and the inhabitants of the earth were intoxicated with the wine of her adulteries."  The beast and the ten horns you saw will hate the prostitute. “They will bring her to ruin and leave her naked; they will eat her flesh and burn her with fire.”  Revelations BECAUSE CHILDREN ARE “NOTHING MORE THAN A CIVIL MATTER!”