Welcome to www.WheresDADDY.org and also see www.AChildsRights.org

This site is here to promote educate and positive change for everyone involved. Everybody knows that both men and women abuse each other and children. It is time that the media stop pandering to the women as the only victims. This site is working for positive change to promote healthy families and children. The children are the true victims in almost every case.

Ask yourself...One day you wake to find (or worse see it happening before your eyes) that your child(ren) have been taken by your spouse and you are told there is nothing that you can do about it. Seconds turn to minutes, minutes to hours, hours to days, days to weeks, weeks to months and in some cases months into years. No communications, no visitation, no custody...nothing. You don't even know if your child(ren) are alive or well. You are told by everyone level of law enforcement that it is nothing more than a civil matter.

But what about the child? Who cares about what the children are going through? Not the abuser! In most every case the child(ren) are left with the abusing parent. WHY? Your children were being held by the other parent (in most cases) without the child's consent. PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) is a very real psychological issue that needs to be addressed because until now it has been widely ignored.

I am fighting for your children's rights, as well as, your rights. I don't care about nationality, your gender, your orientation or even your state, of region (ie; Southern v Yankee). I am fighting for equal rights for every parent and every child I am trying to stop the bias, discrimination and prejudices that are being inflicted on fathers and children of this nation every day. PAS is child abuse and domestic violence. These forms of abuse effect millions of children and hundreds of thousands of parents every year. I am standing against these forms of child abuse and domestic violence.

What kind of system protects the abuser and leaves the children with that abuser? Nobody mentions the victims (non-custodial parent, guardian and relatives or the child(ren)). What about my child's rights to communication, visitation and custody? What about their right to keep the other parent, guardian or relatives informed of school, medical, dental or other rights? Mothers have the right to alienate, abduct and even kidnap their child(ren)? You have rights to just about everything to include the pursuit of happiness. What about my child's right to choose one parent over another? Even your pets have rights...so why not our children?

What about the children who are being alienated? Are they happy that they are being refused their rights to see their families? What about their right to be protected from denigration which is a form of mental abuse? Even if they could speak to tell someone what gives them the right to justice? Your children are not protected from either parent, guardian or relatives, nor are they protected from the systems that are in place to protect them. A custody order only protects the parents, guardians and relatives, but many parents, guardians and relatives have proven that the custody order is nothing more than piece of paper that holds little more weight or power than a piece of toilet paper.

WHERE DO WE START?

The solutions is so simple. Nearly 100% of these battles of parental alienation, parental abductions and parental kidnappings are because there is no custody order. Therefore just create a joint legal and physical custody order at the time of birth. The only reason that I could not remove my son from the abusers home was because of the state law that says you cannot remove a child from its birth state without going to jail...what good would I have been for them in jail? So I have used the pen...it is said to be mightier than the sword. But it does not cut as deep as the biased, indifferent, inconsequence of the legal systems keeping you from your child(ren).

April 25th - Mark You Calendars

Parental Alienation & Hostile Aggressive

Parenting awareness day

1. PARENTAL ALIENATION & DENIGRATION

"Your father doesn't love you and is not coming back for you," is the common denigration most mothers inflict on their children while committing acts of parental alienation. Women become violent when you say they are "brain washing" the children. Their defense is, "there is no such thing." Brainwashing is what the governments and the medias of the world specialize in and women are no different. So many children believe the brain washing that they are force feed from their denigrating mothers, courts, law enforcement, attorneys, etc. In most cases these acts are reprehensible, malicious, outrageous, oppressive, trickery, deceit, fraudulent, made in bad faith and in conscious disregard for the father's and children’s rights. Don't get me wrong sometimes it is the father who does this and therefore I am saying that no parent should be permitted to do it.

Even animals are affected by Parental Alienation. This adult cat is nursing from a blanket

Women want you to believe that all fathers are just players who run-a-way from responsibility. The woman has no responsibility in the one-night-stand that took place. She is the victim. Most fathers found that trying to obtain and keep any contact with their children has nearly cost them their lives. Being a father can be a huge expense financially, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually and it is a losing battle best just walked away from. When fathers try to call their kids the mothers say no. When fathers try to visit their kids they get the door slammed in their faces or the police called on them. The only time that fathers are referred to positively is "well at least he pays his child support." In some cases men have paid child support to children that were not their biological children because a mother said it was their child (any episode of Maury proves that). When the truth is discovered the U.S. government says sucks to be you.

I personally see PAS as nothing more (nor less) than Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is typically chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms:

Not learning from experience

No sense of responsibility

Inability to form meaningful relationships

Inability to control impulses

Lack of moral sense

Chronically antisocial behavior

No change in behavior after punishment

Emotional immaturity

Lack of guilt

Self-centeredness

2. CHILD SNATCHING

This is just another word for parental alienation. Although this is taken from the state of Iowa law it is a great example and a huge step forward for this nation. The new term "Child Snatching Tort" is a tort action that allows damages for child snatchings occurring before a formal adjudication of custody is an important supplement to statutes that apply to child snatching in Iowa. These current statutes apply only after a custody decree has been awarded. Abstract: Child snatching typically involves children of divorce, who are greatly in need of stability and continuity to counteract the impact of conflict and change to maintain their health and proper growth.

A network of laws applicable in Iowa aim at deterring and providing remedies for child snatching. They include the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (UCCJA), which aims at deterring snatching by limiting jurisdiction of custody proceedings to a single State; the Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act, which closes the loopholes of the UCCJA by abolishing concurrent jurisdiction for child custody cases and by mandating that child custody awards granted pursuant to the provisions of the statute in one State be accorded full faith and credit in all other States; and the Iowa Kidnapping Statute, which makes the violation of a custodial order through child snatching a felony. This network of laws has a number of deficiencies, the primary one being a lack of remedy for snatchings that occur prior to the awarding of the custody decree.

A tort action for interference with child custody would permit damages for child snatchings that occur before a formal adjudication of custody. Once a victimized parent has been awarded damages, that parent is placed in an advantageous position from which to negotiate the return of a snatched child. Further, the tort action permits the collection of damages from any coconspirators involved in the snatching.

His mother was repeatedly running-a-way from home had attempted suicide. This was the last photograph taken of my son (9 months old) and I before my son kidnapped for 172 days by his mother. She only complied once a court order had been put into place however she had continued her pattern of hostile aggressive parenting and parental alienation since June 25, 2007. He was first held hostage at her fathers house who threatened to kill me if I tried to take my son our of the state of Georgia. She did not permit any communication, visitation, not even any photographs of my son. She moved repeatedly without informing me of her where-a-bouts and even removed my name as the next of kin from our son's medical providers. And yet the court still leaves our son in her custody.

After repeatedly running-a-way from home and suicide attempts my second wife who was had control and trust issues called her father to assist her (typically kidnapping) in the the abduction of our 9 month old son. He threatened to kill me if I tried to take my son and the Georgia Department of Children and Family Services threatened to simply take my child back due to my disabilities.

3. 50 / 50 CUSTODY

"If the parties have 50/50 custody, the children usually have a set of clothes and age-appropriate toys at each parent's home. The parent that has custody at time of any doctor's appointments or school activities usually takes the children to that particular appointment or activity, unless it is agreed that the other parent will pick up the children for their appointments. If the parents have a rotating type schedule, the primary parent sends the children to the other parent with enough clothes for the time the children will be spending with the other parent. The other parent may also have extra clothes at his residence. The primary parent is usually responsible for taking the children to any appointments and after school activities, unless otherwise agreed upon." - Source: http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4617317_joint-custody-work.html

Many arguments have been raised since 50/50 parenting has come out. One of the most debated is who pays support. The answer is both parents pay their own support (clothing, food, shelter, etc) but must share the medical expenses. Although both parents are not required to have a child 50% of the time a court can look at this as a factor in considering modifications of custody / visitation in the future. Likewise, failure to show up with the child is classified as a interference with custody which is considered a contemptible actions (whether you can get the judge to convict or not is another story).

Factors that are supposed to be considered:

1. The family does not end with separation or divorce; functions such as parenting continues. Joint custody allows for the responsibility of parenting to be shared.
2. The end of the relationship does not mean the end of the parental relationship. Unworkable marriage does not necessarily result in an unworkable parenting relationship.
3. The best interests of children are met when parents can work together in carrying out the responsibilities of raising children together.
4. Children need a relationship with both parents. Joint custody sets the stage for the parents to be involved in the lives of their children.
5. Raising children is a full time responsibility. Joint custody allows for that responsibility to be shared without over burdening one parent, as often happens in sole custody, or by not giving enough responsibility as may occur with the visiting parent.
6. Parents have different assets that are important to their children. Joint custody allows parents to combine their child-rearing skills and more completely meet the needs of their children.
7. Joint custody requires an ongoing plan for the everyday care that fosters stability. Some children can handle equal time with each parent; other children need a more central residence.
8. Both parents have a right and a responsibility to make decisions affecting their children. It is that sense of responsibility that strengthens the ongoing attachment between parents and children.
9. Joint custody is not for parents who are locked in intense conflict and are unable to find a reasonable way of working together. Counseling may be necessary to develop an environment for cooperation.
10. Joint custody is not workable when parents are using it to meet their personal needs and are unwilling to consider the needs of their children.

5. BIAS / DISCRIMINATION / PREJUDICE

Anyone who has lived through parental alienation knows that there are victims and that it is kidnapping. But women can just turn on the tears and cry wolf and the justice system turns to a "guilty until proven guilty" stereotypical machine of malicious prosecution and injustice. Father to felons is the standard practice of our government turning as many father into felons as it can with bias, prejudice and discrimination.

What I have found to be the biggest injustice is the "get out of jail FREE card" given to custodial parents (nearly 100% women). They are unjustly enriched monetarily, as well as, the number of days they have the children each years and are not punished if they do not deliver the children, the interfere with communications, and virtually all legal rights of the non-custodial parent. Not only do fathers have to pay for being a parent, but they are further punished if they try to have any visitation, communications, or even legal rights to their children.

Current statistics on domestic violence and child abuse are grossly inaccurate and biased. Since men/fathers have little to no support for even reporting domestic violence, let alone, justice or victim restitution the facts and figures about men/fathers being abused is are not being accurately collected nor reported. Men are being raped by women, men are being mentally, emotionally and verbally abused by women and when the true statistics are revealed you will see that women are equally as abusive as men.

October

PRESIDENT OBAMA PROCLAIMS OCTOBER AS

NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH

The White House proclamation states, "we encourage victims and their families to call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE." However the webiste (http://www.ndvh.org/) appears to be just another example of the just another victim women's resource once again discriminating against fathers. When I tried to report the domestic violence against me and my children I went to the police. In Southern California I was not only shocked but horrified when the Sheriff openly was informing me how to abuse your wife and children by putting your hand in a pillow (like putting on boxing gloves). In Georgia, when I was trying to prevent the abduction and kidnapping of my son I was referred to the Magnolia House. Their telephone representative informed me that they only help women. The Georgia Sheriff asked my why I didn't take matters into my own hands. What kind of message am I supposed to assume that they law enforcement representatives are giving men? When I refuse to be a wife/child abuser I have no justice system that will protect me or my children from abusive women.

6. ABSCONDING V ABDUCTION

Currently our laws grossly ignore parental alienation as nothing more than an act of absconding (running-a-way). However, absconding or running-a-way means to take oneself. Abduction and kidnapping means to take someone else. Telling a child to get in the car or the act of picking them up is a physical act force. Most children are to young or to used to going with a parent that they are unaware that any crime is being committed and in many cases are brainwashed into thinking that they were being abused.

ABSCOND - Etymology: Latin abscondere to hide away, from abs- + condere to store up, conceal Date: circa 1578 :

1 : to depart secretly and hide oneself

ABDUCT - Etymology: Latin abductus, past participle of abducere, literally, to lead away, from ab- + ducere to lead Date: 1825

1 : to seize and take away (as a person) by force

Kidnapping - Etymology: probably back-formation from kidnapper, from kid + obsolete napper thief

Date: 1682

1: to seize and detain or carry away by unlawful force or fraud and often with a demand for ransom

common law offence requiring:

that one person takes and carries a minor away;

by force or fraud;

without the consent of the person taken; and

It would be difficult to kidnap without also committing false imprisonment, which is the common-law offence of intentionally or recklessly detaining the victim without lawful authority. The use of force to take and detain will also be regarded as an assault, and other, related offences may also be committed before, during, or after the detention. How would this not be an act of parental alienation? The intentional act if taking a minor child.

In the time of Pharaoh God, through Moses, freed the slaves. One hundred and fifty years ago this nation fought to stop slavery. At some point the dirt little family secrets were longer a thing to ignored. Once the abuse became public the truth about just how serious a problem it was has never failed to get billions of dollars of government funding. Parental alienation is the new domestic violence and child abuse secret that is being ignored.

7. CIVIL / HUMAN / BIBLICAL RIGHTS

Our children are referred to as "NOTHING MORE THAN A CIVIL MATTER" in the United States today. Not even rating such nouns as; citizen or even human. Our pets have rights but our children do not. Since children have no rights why should they be protected? Above all is supposed to be our biblical rights, then our human rights and finally our civil rights. This is neither civil nor right.

8. MINORS

Although there is no minimum age for child to testify in front of a court (in most states) but at the age of 14 can make their own decision to live with the other biological parent. However in cases of abuse counselors will be assigned to detect specific behavior, as well as, medical tests that can prove various signs of abuse including drugs, alcohol, sexual misconduct and even physical and mental abuse.

9. VICTIMS

For far too many years women have been the only victims of abuse. However many cases of abusive women are surfacing and men have no place to turn. Women are given unjust enrichment while men are required to just take the abuse. The men are victim and so are the children. Enough with battered women and women supremacy. The law enforcement, the courts, the department of children service and attorneys do more damage to families than they do to each other (guns, badges, paperwork, forced separation, police cars and jails).

THE CHILD

Take a walk in our children's shoes. A child who has been wrongfully taken, kept, or concealed by an abductor (also called victim child). Most laws specify an age limit for the children they cover. If the child is not old enough to say what their wishes are or if they are alienated long enough the child may have no recollection of the parent when (and if) the child is returned. This is why I am fighting for children to have rights of their own. So children have a voice to help protect them from the abusing parent. The children may never fully understand what their fathers did for them unless they grow up and become a father too.

VICTIM PARENT

The parent from whom the child has been wrongfully taken, kept, or concealed. Also called left-behind parent and searching parent. In either case this the crimes that I have discussed in this document have multiple victims (the child, the non-custodial parent or guardian and relatives). Meanwhile the child and non-custodial parent or guardian suffers mental and physical directly other family members are affected by these crimes too. Men are being victimized 7:1 by women when it comes to parental alienation, verbal and mental abuse and children 9:1 by women. Even today men still have almost no place to report abuse of themselves or their children by their mothers. It is assumed that the fathers are making false claims against the mothers.

MOTHERS

Mommy, where's

A child has the right to both parents. Do not use the child as a tool of malicious vengeance because children are not a weapon. Women are not the only humans capable of parenting a child. However, woman are victimized by parental alienation too. This is why I have not isolated my efforts in a discriminatory manner.

Each child that is born out of wedlock does not receive any rights to their biological father and therefore the woman does not have to cooperate with or even worry about visitation, communications or legal rights of the child. Who cares about the child it is nothing more than a civil matter. Even if you are abusing your children a woman just has to turn on the tears and turn up the victim and nothing will happen to you. The lies and deception of women is creating a huge gap in the ability for law enforcement and the courts to believe women. Moreover with the coming of awareness to hostile aggressive parenting a much more clear picture of child abuse by mothers is surprising all who are will to take an unbiased look at the facts of the matter.

I also own www.WheresMOMMY.org because parental alienation is not right for anyone to be subjected and victimized by. However this site was taken down and incorporated into this site because of two factors. First was that site site received 1 hit per month when WheresDADDY received 10,000 in the same month. Secondly, I gave women the ability to create the site to their information needs and was told by some visitors that having two sites made it appear to discriminate the genders since the basic information contained in the sights were nearly identical.

Women can just go to Planned Parenthood and take the morning after pill, drop their children off at specific locations and not even go to jail for it but fathers they do not even matter. they have no responsibility for their one night stands or free sexual expression. They are not players like men. Men have no way of "controlling" the life of children who are created and in a growing number of cases are never even informed that they were a parent by the mother and typically only find out years later when CPS show up at his door with a warrant for failure to pay child support.

FATHERS

Many of our Nations Fathers are not standing up to the plate, ready to be the best father that they can be, but they are being raped of their right to equal parenting and our children are being held hostage while the ransom is set by attorneys, courts and our own government. Tell me how a "child's best interests" are being met? This country is trying desperately to mark as many fathers as felons as it can and as fast as it can. I have been incarcerated twice now for trying to protect my children from the abusive parent (in these cases my mothers).

WE ARE NOT DISPOSABLE DADS!

My first wife trumped up charges that were dropped but the D.A. who brought them against me but turned a blind eye/ear and did nothing about the false claims. When she was found unfit to be a mother she used the children as a shield to keep from going to jail herself and has been running with the children since 2003. My second wife was nothing more than a run-a-way who had trust and control issues and used the child as a weapon. In both cases the charges were dropped but I (the father) was faced with not only the injustice system but I have continued to witness the legalized kidnappings of our children by their mothers and our government.

My second wife, used Southern California's legal system against Northern California finding pitting one state against itself and it worked. She was physically, mentally and verbally abusive, was not held accountable for violations of the visitation and communications of our child but when I tried to protect him from physical and sexual abuse I was charged with what she (although we have joint custody but just because she was given custody and I was not) could not be charged with.

At what point did I agree to have children so they could be adopted into another family (my ex-wives and their new husband)? At what point did I sign away my rights to be a father to my children? Who created the bias discriminatory laws that permitted my children to be stolen and held hostage? However your teenage children can be just dirty as all the rest. Especially when you are dealing with a sexually active teen daughter who does not want to leave her boyfriends. Pregnant at 14, high school drop out at 15, and married at 16 (all which happened while living with the mother) is never taken into consideration.

Fathers, if you are old enough to play...then be man enough to pay. DNA is rapidly becoming the standard for determining who is financially (at minimum) responsible for a child. Women and children are not punching bags. It is just as much your responsibility to prevent an unwanted (or unreported) birth.

How many children were told that they said "NO" to the abortion ended the child's life?

How many children were informed that their fathers were fighting for them and didn't have enough money to continue fighting the mother and her government?

How many children were informed that their fathers do not love them and abused them by alienating & denigrating mothers who wanted nothing more to do with the father?

How many children were told their fathers were dead?

How many children were told that they were molested by their fathers only to later understand what molestation means and know that their father did not.

How many mothers have told their children It was wrong of me to keep you from your father?"

However, let me also say that it is your ultimate responsibility to prove who you are as a man and a father. Your morality, your honesty, your integrity and your faith will be tested to the fullest. Those who do not "take matters into their own hands" are called dangerous. First women came out about the physical abuse by husbands and later it was child abuse. Then it was sexual abuse and they demanded the sex offender database. However now that the truth is coming out about mothers they are saying that the men are liars. This vicious cycle has been destroying families for far to long and this side of the dirty family secrets will continue to go unpunished. In some states women are showing up more than men. How could this be? Women are victims.

10. DISCRIMINATION

In many cases the court and even the department of children services will use a man's disabilities against him while ignoring the mothers. The stereotype that a man with disabilities is incapable of parenting while a mother with disabilities is a mother. You will find all forms of discrimination in every agency at some point during the time that you are dealing with them. Gender, age, disabilities, nationality, orientation, etc. Some states will treat outsiders with disrespect and not serve justice. If you are not represented by an attorney or you are not dressed at a specific minimum standard. There is no end to the list of their discrimination.

11. MISSING CHILDREN

When ever a child goes missing even for a moment the parent experiences panic and as time goes on it turns into terror. Those who have experienced kidnappings are hold in no less status as a prisoner of war. Time is your worst enemy and it can be the cruelest punishment of all. However those who have experienced parental alienation know what kidnappers go through as well.

Parental Alienation is KIDNAPPING!

12. SUPPORT GROUPS

Although there are an endless wealth of resources for women and children who are seeking support from domestic violence and child abuse there are almost none for men/fathers. When I reported the abuse to both law enforcement and DCS/DCFS evidence was "misplaced," I was sent to jail and maliciously prosecuted. When my second wife reported that my son was missing (which turned out just to be a sick joke) I was informed that because I was not the custodial parent no crime had been committed.

13. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CHILD ABUSE

Men are speaking out about their experiences of women abusing them and it is just as common as men abusing woman. Just as many women are committing child abuse as men too. Although women are not as prone to physical abuse they are just as likely to commit sexual abuse and they are more prone to mental and verbal abuse. Man have little to no place to report or get support from domestic violence and therefore the numbers are grossly inaccurate. Any person who has lived through parental alienation knows that it is kidnapping.

Today women are most likely to report false claims of abuse against themselves and children. However, when a man is cleared of any wrong doing (meaning the charges were false) the system not only does not remove that report from the database but it also does not report it as a false police report. Just like the district attorneys office will spend thousands of dollars maliciously prosecuting a father who has been falsely accused but will not spend a dime going after the mother for filing a false police report.

"When we ignore male victims of domestic abuse, we also ignore their children, who continue to be damaged by witnessing the violence regardless of how severe it is. We cannot break this intergenerational cycle by ignoring half of it. That's why a global coalition of experts has formed to support a research-based, inclusive approach, and their website has solid data showing women initiate the violence as often as men." - Source: http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/male_abuse.htm

"A University of Florida study recently found women are more likely than men to "stalk, attack and abuse" their partners. “We’re seeing women in relationships acting differently nowadays than we have in the past,” said Angela Gover, a UF criminologist who led the research. “The nature of criminality has been changing for females, and this change is reflected in intimate relationships as well." - Source: http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/male_abuse.htm

14. ABSOLUTE RIGHT TO PARENT

This right should not be subject to state, county, city, local or personal interpretation. This right should not discriminate or hold bias against any parent who has legal and just cause to their parental rights. Current laws in many of the United States permit the custodial parent to legally alienate, abduct and kidnap a child. The absolute right to parent only applies to the custodial parent. This is not fair or just, but bias, discriminator and sponsorship of child abuse.

Neither the child, the non-custodial parent, guardian or relatives have any rights against the custodial parent. Prior to a custodial order the parent who has custody, in many cases, took possession of the child without the knowledge or consent of the child or the other parent, guardian or relatives. This in itself should be regarded as an act of abduction and any person(s) who aids in this act should also be held accountable.

The Right to Parent (your biological child(ren) should be a Constitutional Right!

No human can change who God made the biological father or biological mother of a child.

But humans can destroy it for the children.

15. BIOLOGICAL PARENTING

This nation has taken advantage of the child support issue like it took advantage of the social security fund looking at it from the monetary perspective and not the long term effects that it has on the citizens. Currently our country holds fathers and children in a bastard status until he is proven to be the father and this status is only increased to payee. In cases where a child was born out of wedlock neither the child nor the paternal parents have any rights to communication, visitation and/or legal rights.

The Bible states “the Father, the Son” not child support and non-custodial parent. Show me where it says the state has the power to parent a child. This is promoting the morale decay of our nation by mothers who have found that each year they can increase their income and prevent any man from being a part of their life (except for paying support).

16. TIME LIMITS

In Brandon's Law time limits must be instilled to help prevent the custodial parent from malicious abuse of the child and non-custodial parent, guardian or relatives. These time limits would be set in hours, days, weeks and months per calendar year that the custodial child can be prevented from communications, visitations and legal right of the other legal parent/guardians/relatives. How long should a parent wait before reporting abuse. The answer is don't! How long before one parents hostile aggressive parenting is considered a danger to the child? If the mother is doing it is does not matter. If the father is doing it then take swift and immediate action.

Currently, the state of Georgia has a minimum time limit restriction of 40 minutes before a parent can file a police report against the other for interference with child visitation. This prevents the custodial parent from just showing up and leaving immediately or the non-custodial parent from filing police reports when the custodial parent shows up late. Although it permits one or both parents to inflict additional trauma on each other it is at least a fail safe to reduce police reports for frivolous complaints. However this time also opens up an entirely new form and pattern of abuse that would permit custodial parents to inflict additional hours of time lost for the non-custodial parent and children.

17. EDUCATION / PREVENTION

It is required to take a drivers education course prior to obtaining a drivers license in the United States therefore each person entering into a contract of marriage should be required to attend a marriage course. Likewise, parents should be required to attend parenting courses. These courses could help promote marital stability and reduce spousal and child abuse.

Law Enforcement, Attorneys & the courts

1. UCCJA / PKPA / ICARA

"The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (UCCJA) and the Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act (PKPA) are legislative responses to the child custody jurisdiction problem. The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction is the international response. The UCCJA began as a model act which became virtually universal state law. The PKPA, on the other hand, is federal law. The UCCJA creates a two-prong approach to determining which court decides a custody case. First, a general class of jurisdiction is established for custody cases. Second, the law provides a mechanism intended to vest the right to exercise jurisdiction in only one state at any given time. The UCCJA and the PKPA supersede all conflicting or contradictory laws." - Source: www.FindLaw.com

"The United States ratified the Hague Convention in 1986. It went into effect in 1988, upon the enactment of its enabling legislation, the International Child Abduction Remedies Act (ICARA). This Act provides that it "shall apply to any child who was habitually resident in a contracting state immediately before any breach of custody or access rights." The Convention's stated purpose is "to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any Contracting State," and "to ensure that rights of custody and of access under the law of one Contracting State are effectively respected in the other Contracting States." The Hague Convention's underlying policy is primarily to ascertain a speedy return of an abducted child to the state in which he or she was an habitual resident, without undertaking a full investigation of the case's merits." - Source: www.FindLaw.com

2. STATE LAWS

Each state can that the UCCJA and modify it to their own interpretations. In many case it is diluted to the point that it no longer has any weight nor merit. These states feel children a nothing more than a civil matter and that the court and law enforcements time is better spent on criminal matters. Some states do not recognize this nations government nor power and therefore do not use the UCCJA or even their own states laws when deciding a custody/visitation.

I am calling for revisions to all U.S. Federal, State and Local Codes to reflect that acts of parental alienation are felony acts of child abduction and/or kidnapping as may apply to each case. Many acts of parental alienation are malicious acts of vengeance against the other spouse and therefore need to be judged according to the time a child is kept from the other biological parent (without true and just cause).

Custody Orders are to be effective from the time of birth (only limited by the time that the paternal parent is identified through DNA).

No bias / discrimination / indifference or preferential treatment to be given to one parent / guardian over any other

Both parents are to be kept informed about all legal matters of their child. This means that schools and medical (just as a small example) would be required to contact and inform both parents / guardians about appointments.

Copies of all records must be made available to both parents (including school, doctors, etc.).

Any parent who does limits / restricts participate in visitation / communication / legal (without just cause) shall be a criminal act.

Any case taken in bad faith by law enforcement / courts / DCS (DCFS / CPS) cannot be simply ignored but must seek damages against the person who filed the false report.

Limiting the amount of time that a child can be kept from visitation, communication and other legal rights that both biological parents possess would help reduce the courts case loads. To find your own states laws about visitation, custody, divorce, etc. visit the following websites:

FINDLAW - http://www.findlaw.com

CORNELL UNIVERSITY - http://www.law.cornell.edu/

As I and so many fathers have found out there is no justice for victim fathers or victim children of a mothers acts of parental alienation, parental abduction and parental kidnapping. She could take the children and run with them for life...even with court orders. Women get a slap on the wrist if anything at all. The system protects the mothers which is bias and discriminator against the fathers.

The Absolute Right to Parent is absolute hogwash!

UCCJA (Uniform Code of Child Custody and Jurisdiction) is the core of what each states parenting laws are derived from. However this is a federal guideline that most states completely ignore. The only parent given any measure of justice is either the defacto custodial parent (in my case the abducting / kidnapping parent). Even when the smoke cleared in the court and I had proven the case beyond any reason of doubt the court still sided with the abusers. The only reason that I left the child with the abuser was the law that prevents a child from being removed from their state of birth.

3. JURISDICTION

The state of birth should hold ultimate jurisdiction over the child and no county, city or local municipality within that state should exercise any right or power over the original order. Law enforcement shall not limit or alter the order due to their state, county, municipal or local enforcement regulations or guidelines. "This order is from another county," or "this order is from another state," are the common responses by law enforcement when dealing with a visitation order.

In cases where something is not addressed by the order the law enforcement agency should contact the court or the district attorney of the originating order for clarification. However since it is not viewed as a criminal act it is simply ignored. If needs be, the matter can be presented to the originating court. Neither indifference, personal opinion nor ignorance are part of the justice system. Officers who say there is nothing that they can do mean there is nothing they will do.

State lines create a problem when an abused child/parent is prevented from taken a child with them because that child was born in the current state. Many spouses have no alternative than to return to family that often live in other states and because one state holds jurisdiction over the child the abused parent cannot remove the abused child without facing criminal charges. This leaves the child with the abusive parent for possibly up to 18 years.

4. COURTS

In the courts there are steps (procedures) that must happen in specific order. Paperwork that must be completed and filed correctly or you can lose face and ground with the Judge. Do not denigrate (talk down or bad about) your partner in court...it is not tolerated. Do not talk to the other party...always to the Judge. Show the Judge respect and I have found that they will return it to you. If a judge gives you custody of your children do not hesitate to pick them up immediately. Any lost time could not only cost you custody but years of trails and tribulations from false allegations of your spouse to prevent turning over the children as I found out.

More and more courts today are seeing that justice is not being served and that not having an attorney is no excuse for not receiving justice. The child is the victim in almost every case. Northern California has made tremendous efforts to help families. Justice is not what you can pay for but what is right and just. But when funding is at stake you will also find malicious prosecution. In San Bernardino California men are being forced through a bias, double jeopardy system so they can have money.

In Georgia attorney's seem to be running things. There are no standard forms which leaves everyone open to horrible injustices. People and attorney's will not hesitate to inform you that you will NOT receive justice without an attorney in Georgia. Each time a judge verbalizes an order the attorney's manipulate it to read what they want and if you are not careful you will sign something that is a horrible injustice to yourself and your children. I have refused to sign any of the orders created by the opposing side because of the gross errors and omissions of their documents. Judges secretaries just rubber stamp things with the judges names on them regardless of the consequences to the children and can simply veto something with paperwork from the other side if they don't like what is said.

Some courts do not want justice to be served. They prevent anyone from bringing anything into the courtrooms that contains electronic evidence, do not video their proceedings ensuring that there is no evidence of wrong doing by the court. Some of the courts ignore the "best interests of the child even when there is no doubt that the courts decision is wrong and leads to a life of torture from the abusive custodial parent. Many courts have standard forms which make divorces and child custody an easy and less painful process. However, Georgia is not one of those states. The attorney appear to run the show and the judges just follow along.

Be weary of a judges who tells you to "just sign and return" anything created by the opposing side because once you sign it you have agreed with what it says. It any case where there is grey areas that are not clearly defined by the courts orders they are simply reduced to an "oversight," "a misunderstanding" or "miscommunications." No resolution or restitution is offered for the time lost between the father and child(ren). "If you had been represented by an attorney," is one statement made that really got me thinking. It is because of her attorneys, the courts and the laws of this country that we are being subjected to such torture. "Justice is best served cold." Believe me the darkest regions of space cannot compare to what fathers and children are put through.

Judges, law enforcement and attorney's know which laws are biased and discriminatory but they do not take actions to bring about change to stop these injustices. They simply permit them to continue and continue to enforce the broken laws that continue to destroy so many families. Judges are even keeping law enforcement from taking reports for interference with visitations. Visitation typically gives a non-custodial parent 8 days with their child per month and it does not matter to them what the long term effect will be on the child(ren). It is the guideline to be followed because children are "nothing more than a civil matter." When a man defending himself has to inform the judge of his state's laws what does that mean about what he thinks about your case? Courts are paid money to run fathers through the system and the more times a father can be run through the system the better for them.

Check out this site about bad judges: http://ks-fcrc.com/TruthLinks.aspx

5. LAW ENFORCEMENT

Law enforcement treats visitation/custody orders like they have less weight and merit of a single sheet of toilet paper. Any non-custodial parent can tell you stories of how the law enforcement did not care that they had a court order because they were not the custodial parent or they simply show indifference and say "it doesn't tell me what to do" (meaning no SERIOUS crime has occurred go back to court). Unless a child or the mother are being abused then no crime has been committed therefore children are "nothing more than a civil matter." Law enforcement deals with hundreds of calls each day that range from crime to just plain nuisance and a waist of their time. With each call comes putting their own lives in danger and then potentially hours of paperwork when the call is done. Being an officer of the law is no easy task and it is not just setting in a car baiting speeders. But law enforcement cannot enforce things unless they are laws or ordinances which are criminal acts.

A mother who does not show up for visitation is not breaking the law however a father who does not is a felon. This double standard of justice has been proven by far to many of our nations presidents. For more than six years I have seen just how unjust our justice system can be. Police and Sheriff's offices across this country "misplacing" evidence that proved the mother was the abuser, refusing to take police reports, filing false reports and refusing to enforce the laws or even court orders. Not doing their duty is worse than having no police force at all. No wonder so many fathers take matters into their own hands. The balance of justice is biased and discriminates against men.

Many people have no respect for law enforcement because they have no clue what most of your day is really like. Putting on a uniform, driving a large target and putting yourself into harms way is no easy task and most would never do what you do. I am not taking a cheep shot at law enforcement either. If you are enforcing these law then you have seen the damage that they are doing and could do your part to support or help change them. Brandon's Law would reduce a large portion of complaints that are not enforceable and decrease claims severely because the result would be a serious violation that is enforceable. Just by creating a custody order at the time of birth would drop parental alienations by nearly 100%. Anything after that would be either a true crime or simply a modification of the custody order. It is my goal to resolve parental alienation and if Brandon's Law reduces your work load then I have helped you too.

However far to many cases of misplaced evidence, bribes friends, family, good ole boys and payoffs. Justice has become nothing more than just another government job that is above the law and no longer serves the people. People hiding behind guns with badges using the power and authority invested in them to be nothing more than common criminals themselves. Ask yourself if you are just part of the problem or part of the solution.

6. ACCOUNTABILITY / ENFORCEMENT

Get set for the games to begin. You will be played more than a chess pawn and ping-pong are their favorite games. It isn't our jurisdiction, it isn't our city, state, or even problem. You will learn that a custody order has less importance than toilet paper. That even if you are awarded custody it will not be enforced nor upheld. If you are dealing with multiple counties or states you can just about hang it up. Being in jail would have been less painful than living without rights to your children. If you are a judge, a law enforcement officer or even an attorney and think that anything that I am saying is a lie then step into my shoes and walk the road of legalized parental kidnapping that I and so many others have walked.

The custodial parent is required to inform the non-custodial parent, guardian and or relatives of any and all changes of address, telephone, email, instant messenger, etc. within 48 hours of the change. Any act of blocking, restricting, or prevention of this information shall be held as contempt of court and is punishable by fines, community service, jail terms and or the possible loss of visitation, custody and legal rights to the child.

The custodial parent is required to adhere to communications, visitation and custody rights of the non-custodial parent, guardian and or relatives. Any act of blocking, restricting, or prevention shall be held as contempt of court and is punishable by fines, community service, jail terms and or the possible loss of visitation, custody and legal rights to the child. Acts of contempt, perjury or false allegations shall be held as contempt of court and is punishable by fines, community service, jail terms and or the possible loss of visitation, custody and legal rights to the child.

7. CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES

Children Services help millions of children that are being abused and neglected. Parents, relatives, foster parents and children of all ages contact the agencies and make reports that rang from basic questions and concerns to severe forms of physical, mental and verbal abuse that has resulted in death. They have to deal with bickering parents and false allegations which is not an easy task by many measure. But any agency can and will make mistakes. Most are innocent but others are outright fraud and lies. And being that this is a government agency there is no recourse from any actions taken by this agency. This also means the children. Children do not have the right to be protected from the parents or any agency that was created to protect them. This is just one of the departments of justice that hides behind its badge of legal immunity and gets away with human trafficking and even abused and murdered by the foster families.

FORCED ADOPTIONS & DESTROYED FAMILIES

The Department of Children and Family Services (a.k.a. CPS) do not care about what impact they has on families. They are above the law and treat everyone they deal with (especially the children) as "nothing more than a civil matter." Recent news has made headlines proving that CPS/DSC/DCFS (or what ever other names they are using) are getting paid for adoption of children without the knowledge nor consent of the parents/guardians. The irony to these stories is that our nations orphans are not being adopted but our government is volunteering our children for profit.

Just remember that if your children are being handled by CPS then they are dealing with people who only care about or listening to them while the file is on their desk. When I attended foster parenting classes I found the director and some of the staff to be closed and cold to the children in the system. The children were crying out (and acting out) because they too did not understand what was happening. In the system of the damned the parents are treated as felons being ordered about and any failure to do the dictated items are reported as nothing shy of contempt. They take judges orders and modify them to be what they want them to be assuming that they have power and authority over and above the courts.

DOUBLE JEOPARDY

The Department of Children and Family Services (a.k.a. CPS) and family courts are forcing parents to be subjected to a double jeopardy scheme of justice. If charges are brought again someone in the criminal court and they are cleared of them the family court and DFCS will put the person on trial again for the same thing. Any individual or entity that is held without legal bounds will abuse the people that it is sworn to protect just as our Presidents have proven for far to long.

While completing a foster parenting course DCS brought in a bunch of minors who were in the system to show how bad these kids were. What I saw and HEARD was a lot of children who felt just as victimized as the families. Such horror stories as minors being placed into adult detention centers, record suicide attempts, etc. which are not required to be reported. Such violation of human rights would not be tolerated by the United Nations. Our schools have 12' tall fences with gates and guards. They are "locked down" which is a jail term whenever a threat is reported. The school are given less money while population is still growing. And yet DCS/DFCS/CPS continues to receive more and more money.

DRUGGING OUR YOUTH

I am shocked and alarmed that the government and women are using our children as lab rats for psychological testing and treatments. The medicating of our children by schools, hospitals and one parent should be illegal. My first wife had our oldest daughter thinking that she needed a shrink and drugs. She not only took her without my knowledge or consent but also told her to "keep it a secret" from daddy. This is nothing more (nor less) than another government gone wild for money with the drug manufacturers.

8. ORDER ENFORCEMENT

Each day law enforcement and courts simple overlook the letter of the law of custody orders as if they had no power or weight. Custody orders carry weight and are enforceable and no law enforcement agency, court or other agency should dilute or disregard any article within them either. In most cases the law enforcement officers simply say it doesn’t tell us what to do if the person does not comply. This “not my job” approach to law enforcement makes it appear that the orders have no weight nor merit and therefore the non-custodial parent can not be held accountable either.

If neither the court nor the law enforcement is going to enforce the orders then why put it on paper? I watched helplessly as I was bounced from one law enforcement agency to another only to be told to go back to where I started. Parental Alienation does not matter to anyone who it has not happened to. Making a mockery of the parent who is trying to defend and protect their children should be an offense that can be brought against such judicial indifference.

9. CONTEMPT / PERJURY / FALSE ALLEGATIONS

Acts of perjury, contempt and false allegations should be held accountable by the district attorneys office. In cases where a district attorney has charged one spouse with a crime and the charges were found to be false, the district attorneys office should in turn defend the accused as they defended the accuser. Justice is not single sided and where justice is not served this is an act of bias and discrimination which the district attorneys office should be held accountable.

10. ATTORNEYS

Attorney's are robbing our children and holding them hostage for money. Each time an attorney takes one or two attorney's take both sides the children are the ones who suffer. The financial blood letting of one spouse effects the children just as much as a custody/visitation order. Attorney's are the leading cause of hostage children. An attorney came up with the idea that the 2nd and 4th weekend of the month was an easy way to calculate when a visitation was supposed to happen but an attorney does not care about the best interests of a child.

I was informed that it would cost up to $10,000 to be represented by an attorney in the family courts. Even at this price you are not guaranteed that you will receive any better outcome. The only thing I didn't win (without the aid of an attorney) was physical custody of my son). I did not have to pay spousal support, or even attorney's fees (boy was he hot). I showed the courts respect and did my research. If you don't know the legal process, the laws, etc. you will find yourself sinking fast and could lose everything that you are fighting for.

I was facing a self-proclaimed extortionist who utters false statements and uses his knowledge of the law to do evil deeds. Georgia's Coffee County has been the subject of FBI, U.S. Attorney and many other agencies investigations for their outright corruption. The court will tell you as Attorney George McCranie IV told me ignorance is not a defense however, when he was charged with a long list of crimes he cried that he could not be held accountable for his actions because he was ignorant of the fact that he was being recorded. Isn't that claiming "ignorance" too? Just one more double standard of justice.

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At some point, one would think, they would loose their license to practice law for something like this. Attorney's hold our children hostage for money and therefore attorney's who practice family law should receive a set rate. I also believe that our children should also have an attorney representing them to ensure that neither parents attorney's have violated the rights of the child(ren). I was brought up that if you didn't do anything wrong then you didn't need an attorney, but you had to be able to back up who you were. Your conduct, your character, your honor, discipline and faith will be challenged by those who hold a profession of anything but truth and honesty.

When I went to my first law school I couldn't wait to become an attorney. Fighting for truth, justice, and what was right. But I soon discovered that many attorneys are like used car salesmen. Lies, bribes, payoffs, hiding evidence was the only way some could win cases. By destroying the other party was the only way they would win cases. It had nothing to do with justice or protecting children. And therefore I never became an attorney. Attorneys coach women/mother into filing false claims against fathers and involve their children to get an easy win. Once someone has been charged with something they are automatically considered guilty even if the charges are dropped.

Some attorneys are like bad contractors. They want the money up front and then do nothing after that. Depending on which side you are on depends on how hard they are going to work for you also. Typically a defense will work really hard for you because they have to disprove/discredit anything the prosecution throws at them. If this mean finding an destroying evidence, discrediting witnesses, or even paying off people to get DUI convictions removed from their records. It is those attorneys who make the victims feel victimized all over again. Having no honor, integrity or respect and caring only about money turn them into mindless devices of abuse and torture. There was a time when justice meant something (and I don't mean lynching). It's simply evidence that was presented and weighed. Right? Not in every case. Far too many cases are simply given the assembly line treatment. "He's the father" or "just look at him." Presumption on guilt. The filth of the earth. But when you win they act like a sex offender case.

11. SOCIAL SYSTEMS

The government uses children as nothing more than funding and statistics of broken families. Title 4D of the Social Security system is just one of the government gone wild programs to promote single parents and broken homes for nothing more than government research. Cities, counties and states receive funding for broken homes. They receive funding for law enforcement, courts, children & family services, mental heath and so much more. The more people they arrest, incarcerate and pass through the courts the larger their budgets are. A system that would defend an abusive mother rather than permit the children to be with their father.

The social security system prevent fathers from locating their child(ren) that they are paying child support to. Even when the fathers have court orders the social security system does not permit fathers any information about your children. It is hard enough getting the minimal information such as how much the children are being paid. This is just another form of bias discrimination against fathers. Yes, some fathers are abusive. Yes, some fathers use the system to locate the abused. However, today the women are the abusers who are being protected at a ratio of 9:1 (women to men).

No child left behind must mean 100% of the children must be from broken homes so they can claim child support for them all. This is the new social security for this government gone wild. Who ever made the rule about taking a man's license to make him pay child support really took the time to consider who was going to pay for the father who will now be on welfare. House arrest, ok. Weekend jail, ok. But taking a persons license it just ensuring that they are going to be carried by the rest of the tax payers.

12. THE MEDIA

The printed word is a powerful tool and the media knows that they can manipulate the truth and the sheep will follow. When media takes things to far the people become the victims as was proven by the television series "Perverted Justice." Law enforcement permitted the media to do their jobs and the result was 23 sex offenders were released and 1 man was dead. In justice there is due process and if any part of that is compromised then the laws criminals can go free. Just like the show "To Catch a Predator" who took justice into their own hands and had to release dozens of sex predators. If the media had done their job and the law enforcement had done theirs then none would have gone free.

The media does not want stories about victimized fathers. The only want stories of child molesters and woman abusers. Media uses pre-supposition to cast doubt and pre-judgment on the people before they have ever been tried for a crime. The media appears to be returning to the days of witch hunts. Men are cast as "child molesters," "dead beats," "wife and child beaters" and "cheaters." It is not a crime to be a father. Women are "child molesters," "dead moms," "husband and child beaters" and "cheaters" too.

I am searching for ACCURATE statistics of Parental Alienation, Parental Denigration, Parental Abductions, Parental Absconding, Parental Kidnapping. Any parent or guardian who takes a child without the knowledge or consent of the other parent or guardian. I also want to know how many children were taken (maximum and average) as well as how long they were taken. I want to see this data broken down my sex, age, and race. I also want to see how many children were removed from their state of birth, how many were taken across state lines, or taken out of country. How many were held at a parent, relative, and acquiescence. How many the law enforcement, child services or other agency. I want to know how many were returned, how many where harmed (physically, mentally, sexually, etc.).

If you are going to provide data and statistics then put it all out there. Don't discriminate because of gender, age or anything else. Provide us with accurate data of crimes against children and domestic violence. Bring to light a horrible crime against children and families, as well as, provide resources, education and training to help reduce and resolve these forms of child abuse and domestic violence. I want to know why Parental Alienation is being kept such a secret.

13. MEDICAL & HOSPITALS

Doctors, hospitals and nurses go beyond the law to assist mothers in prevent fathers from knowing the medical histories of their children. Fathers must pay hundreds of dollars and present court documents to get copies of their biological child(ren)s medical records. Fathers are typically forced to pay for their child(ren)s medical treatments and yet they are hardly ever kept informed if ever of their child(ren)s medical appointments/medical health. Some mother even go to the lengths of removing the biological fathers names from their child(ren)s medical records only to replace it with their new husbands (the STEP FATHER) name and contact information.

This country wanted healthcare and could not make any progress without the government taking it over. And now everyone is going to pay whether you can or not. Your children who has pre-existing illnesses (as determined by the insurers dart board of death) will continue to not have any medical care unless they give up the priorities of a job, a car and a house so they can have medical coverage. This nation has become a nation of people who take. Gluttony, greed and waist. There is no shortage of people complaining about things but there is a true shortage of people honestly doing their part to stop it.

13. DEFENDING YOURSELF

If you are going to represent yourself in court then the first and most important thing that you must know if that anything that you put on paper (or more importantly don't put on paper) can cost you your case and so much more. Courts in this nation are adopting a guilty until proven guilty preferential stance not caring about the child(ren) because they are "nothing more than a civil matter." Defending yourself is something that is not to be taken lightly. It is not just about you. You child(ren) will pay the same or higher price than even you.

If you cannot afford an attorney here are a few of options.

Just give up and walk away. It will be cheaper, healthier, and you will lose less sleep over it in the long run. You will be in for the literal fight of your life. You will suffer horrible mental and physical torture for weeks, months or even years. But for every father who simply walks away is one more father that will be reported as did not care about his children.

Have a legal document preparation company prepare your documents. This is the 1st key to winning a case having the right documents completed correctly.

If you cannot afford an attorney to represent you for the entire process some states have attorney's who are available on day retainer basis (but remember court cases are often postponed adding to the fees required). Furthermore do some research / background on the attorney to find out who is going to stand in your place.

Visit your law library and look up the family and child sections of your states civil codes. This will give you an overview of what you are up against. They are periodically updated and some courts have law libraries that you can access to obtain this information.

Visit the court. See how things are run and get used to the process and procedures. Take notes and ask questions (quietly and before/after court - NOT DURING!). You should be able to set in the court and see the judge and the rulings that are made and make notes that were important to the court and apply to your case.

Although there will be a million things that you want to say only a small handful will make a difference to the court.

You will be asked questions for which you will not be prepared to immediately answer. In my case I knew the total miles but was not prepared to answer the town 1/2 way.

Day of court: Do not use foul language and Dress the best that you have. No shorts are permitted in any court and many courts prefer at minimum a shirt with a collar. Show up early and know that it may be a very long wait before your case is called. Furthermore your case may not even be heard and have to be rescheduled.

Custody & Visitation & support

1. CUSTODY & VISITATION

These orders set down some minimum guidelines for the parents to adhere to. However the child has to live with someone (meaning custodial parent), Currently the laws in most states give the custodial parent unjust enrichment and power over the non-custodial parent which gives them a "get out of jail FREE card" to do (or not do) just about anything they want to even direct contempt against the courts ordered visitation, communication, etc.

Each year thousands of children, parents, guardians and relatives are subjected to horrible acts of child abuse and domestic violence that typically would be punishable as a crime, but because of a gross oversight in our justice system these acts of malicious vengeance are completely legal. The victims of these crimes are subjected to horrible physical and emotional traumas that most often go unheard because law enforcement takes a hands-off (not my job) approach.

In accordance with the United States Department of Justice, the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children’s Family Abduction Prevention and Response book a custodial parent is defined as a parent who has been awarded sole or joint custody by a court. If this is the cases, then no person can claim custodial jurisdiction over a child, from the time of birth until a custody order is created (except with just cause). Currently, many states refuse to permit the non-custodial parent (prior to custody orders) their absolute right to parent. This also affects grand parents, great grand parents, etc. too.

Permitting one parent exclusive rights to a child when there is no custody / visitation order is child abuse in itself. Typically court dates are scheduled 6 months in advance and the children are forced, in some cases, to reside with the abusive parent until the court meets. During that time the abusive parent is unjustly enriched not only through exclusive rights to the child(ren) but also financially as well. My first ex-wife received more than $16,000 from social security during the time that I had custody orders for my children. That money only increased the boldness of her contempt and my children and I have been alienated for more than 6 years.

Custody of a child that is born out of wedlock currently is defaulted to the mother. This in itself is a bias that violates the fathers rights. There are many factors that should be considered before either parent is given custody and to assume a defacto default in today’s society is just wrong. The merits of each person must be weighed and considered. Just because a mother carried the child(ren) for up to 9 months does not mean she can parent. This is proven by dumpster babies.

By simply creating the custody order at the time of birth you can resolve nearly 100% all of parental alienations and reduce courts caseload dramatically because you have removed a HUGE grey area that plague parents, children, law enforcement and the courts. Therefore, under Brandon’s Law this gross oversight of justice which has permitted the discrimination and bias against so many children and parents can easily be resolved through the issuance of a custody order at the time of birth of every child. Any changes to custody, visitation or other issues would simply been handled through normal family court proceedings, however, this single act would help prevent and reduce parental alienations, parental abductions and parental kidnappings dramatically.

Today, women are no longer say "I've been married to him for..." but are asking how long do I have to be married to collect money from him? How many children do I need to be able to support myself each month?

HOSTAGE CHILDREN

CHILDREN ARE NOTHING MORE THAN A FINANCIAL TOOL TO WOMEN

2. ALIMONY & CHILD $UPPORT

The only ones who care about children are custodial spouses, courts, law enforcement, attorneys and the department of revenue (their financial support only)? Child support has created "HOSTAGE CHILDREN!" It does not matter that the mother simply moves into a house and/or remarries another man increasing her household income. The father must be punished at all cost. "I'm taking the car," "I'm taking the house," "I'm taking the kids" and "you're going to pay me child support" are the common statements that a mother makes. Does the song "she got the gold mine and I got the shaft" mean anything to you?

Commonly a women just has to say the word he's the father and the courts and the department of child services will do everything in their power to take what money they believe is owed to the child. However neither the child gets the money nor does the government gone wild care that the man if not the father. Even when the man proves through DNA that they are not the father the money that the paid in to the system is looked at as non-refundable even though it was their mistake. Governments that have gone wild doesn't want child support to go away because they have their hands in that money just like social security.

BABIES FOR BANK

In today's economy women have found an easy stay-at-home income in one-night-stands. Any child born out of wedlock will increase their income and the biological father will have no rights to the child. Young mothers are finding it easier to just have kids and stay home while collecting hundreds of dollars per month. Every nine months they can double their income. Throw in WIC, food stamps and welfare and they never have to pay taxes.

WOMAN BEFORE GOD

Each child that is born out of wedlock does not receive any rights to their biological father and therefore the woman does not have to cooperate with or even worry about visitation, communications or legal rights of the child. Who cares about the child it is nothing more than a civil matter.

ABORTION

Women can go to Planned Parenthood and take the morning after pill, drop their children off at specific locations and not even go to jail for it but fathers they do not even matter. How many children were told that they said "NO" to the abortion ended the child's life? It takes God, a mother AND a father to create a child. Therefore the man should have some say in their child's life and death. Women cannot stand the idea of men having any say about the right to abortion. Don't put words into my mouth though. I am not saying that a man has either any control over a women or over her body.

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